seriously how do you make friends when you go to cc. Like, not just at cc but outside of cc too. It seems like most people I see that go to community college go to parties or have some sort of social life but I'm the complete opposite. I don't even go out during the weekend and have no social life anymore. help me before I become schizophrenic
to be completely honest, all the friends I made in CC are not close friends. acquaintances at best. most my friends now have been the same since middle or high school. and I don’t party either :l At most I go out with some friends to food or play basketball with them. too occupied with school and work. its okay. you’ll have plenty of time to party and make friends post-CC. just focus on transferring first!
hi, this is going to be random but I have no one else so I chose your tumblr. so recently my dad lost his job because he got really sick & so he was told to leave. Sucks cos it was a good job that paid real good money. Now I have the pressure to find a job to help out financially but cos of college i'm strugglin real bad already& I don't even have a job yet so I can't imagine how stressful it would be with both. I don't wanna tell my friends cos I don't want them to treat me any different, help?
Well,first I’m really sorry about your situation with your dad. And balancing school and work is extremely difficult, but with dedication to school, it can be done. Meaning actually spending time to do work on weekends and such (trust me I use to never do school work till sunday night). And why would your friends treat you different? If they were your true friends they would care and try to help you out and support you. So it’ll be tough, but I’m sure you’ll be able to do it. And for a job, I’d recommend a waiter/waitress job at a place in a wealthy area with lots of white people. They tip the best from what I’ve experienced :D Best of luck to you!
That’s the name of my team I created for the adult basketball league known as XLeague. Its a private league based in East/Northern Los Angeles. We are currently 5-1 (2nd best record) and we have yet to play the team thats undefeated. I am not sure why I’m writing this. I’m so eager to play against them, but at the same time I kind of want to wait it out. Let the suspense milk in some more. Regardless, we have playoffs to go up against them. Yeah..just thoughts running around my head.
So ive recently started community college and even though its only the beginning of my 2nd semester it has been the most depressing school year so far. Everyone seems antisocial and im basically all alone the whole time. It seems so hard to make friends cuz most people seem to be doing their own thing and don't really care about socializing or they're really rude. It sucks cuz I thought things would be better after high school :/
Story of my life. Community college’s are boring as hell. Just gotta grind through it asap. Forget about making friends at cc cause well…its like a continuation of high school imo. Most people already have their friends. Just grind through it. transfer asap. then you should be okay.
yo is it similar? im so used to playing league though lol
hon is a lot mroe fast - paced. mana pool is a lot smaller. more strategic. more team play. lol i look at league and it looks so gay dude! get on hon dude. its harder to get better but its definitely more fun.
how do u feel about your friends being in relationships? do u approve of the people they date or do u not like any of them? some of my friends dont like my girl n idk why /:
lol honestly I’ve seen this happen to some of my best friends. and truthfully, the way i see it is. if they are your true friends. and i mean people you can consider your as close as family (cause the rest don’t matter). they won’t care. They’ll care more about your happiness and well-being and be happy for you.
UNLESS.. That girl has been treating you wrong and/ or is lying to you and isn’t a good girl and you just haven’t seen or realized it. Then thats a different scenario..
Honesly is it bad that im 18, in college and dont smoke or drink. I mean, idc if others do it but its not something i like doing. I feel like people judge me on that and think im boring or something. And I dont want to be those lame people that do it just to fit in and be accepted. :/
no ignore whoever is making you feel down. one of my best friends doesnt smoke, drink, etc. Shoot, i envy that you dont do all those things.